"Win or lose - it's how you play the game"
How many times have you heard it said "It doesn't matter whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game'?
We all know very well that it does matter whether you win or lose. And how you play the game is equally important. The means are important and not only the end.
'How you play the game' has many meanings. Certainly it means playing by the rules of the game. Playing the game properly with honesty and integrity also requires playing by rules beyond the game. Good sportsmanship is a central theme in any sport and integral to the success of any club or community. Being a good sport; acting fairly and accepting whatever situation we find ourselves in. Demonstrating humility in victory or in defeat reflects a team's culture just as how a team may celebrate its success or loss. There have been some instances in the last week on the international scene that certainly have not demonstrated humility (the US Open Tennis women's semi-final) or integrity (Formula One). Sporting heroes are required to be role models for our young people.
Modern day coaches might argue that it is best not to think about winning or losing and that the focus should be upon the processes because in the long run the wins and losses will take care themselves.
As the winter sports season here in Adelaide culminates in a series of finals, (and our own Inter-College sporting contest also draws to a close), I am reminded that in finals time, a season of blood, sweat and tears will mean nothing unless a team can hold on or come up with the winning strategy- sure processes, team structures and game plans all have a role. There's is no magic formula to success other than hard work, an iron will and the strictest of disciplines. In the end though, it's the team that wants it the most that will win.
One can't be in perfect form all the time and good form comes and goes in cycles. We all like to win - but it means nothing without integrity.
To those teams that have and do make the finals, my very best wishes for all you deserve.
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